Bringing Kennedy Home

Feelings, thoughts and other tidbits along the way to adopting our daughter from China.

Monday, February 05, 2007

It's almost 4 a.m...

Hi everyone. It's almost 4 a.m. Kennedy went to sleep at 10:00 and has been snug as a bug in a rug ever since. Marv and I both woke at 3, but he's back to sleep. I decided to get up and do some blogging...

So last night was pretty stressful for our girl. Obviously, she was exhausted. She wouldn't have anything to do with food so we just focused on comforting her and helping her get to sleep. It was that kind of cry where every now and again she just was overwhelmed with sadness, I think. All in good time. We totally are prepared for this grieving process. The Kennedy that you see in the pictures at the government offices is the "I'm not gonna cry in front of all these people" girl. Seems she has reserved that for here in the room. We're dedicating our time here all to her so he knows we'll be here for her...

We're going to breakfast @ 7 and then leaving at 8:30 to do more paperwork, etc. At some point today, I have to mix some kind of concoction that she will eat... they gave us formula and rice powder but she wanted no part of what i mixed yesterday. It's hard to get the right consistency, the right temperature (these babies are known to like their formula HOT!) Oh well, we'll get it right eventually.

BTW, when we got Kennedy, they gave us a gift...a glass ornament type thing, but no camera. But when Marvin went down last night to do the paperwork, voila, there it was! And Cindy, our guide is getting them developed for us. Can't wait to see those!

Once again, the messages we are receiving are awesome! Our site is obviously being passed around which warms my heart. We'll talk more soon. I think our girly is waking up!!
xox
Carolyn, Marvin and Kennedy

posted by Kennedy and Jaida's mom @ 3:53 p.m.  

26 Comments:

  • At 4:28 p.m., February 05, 2007, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    For once in my life I am speechless. Kennedy is truely blessed to be your chosen daughter. I wasn't able to see the video until I got home which was probably a good thing as I cried big tears of joy. I wish I was there and miss you guys. Give Kennedy lots of hugs and kisses from the Deighans.

    xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxox

    Kim, Graham, Brett, Cody, and Paige

     

  • At 4:38 p.m., February 05, 2007, Blogger Red Sand said…

    I'll be checking out those videos tonight for sure. I'm so thrilled that this day has arrived for you.

     

  • At 4:54 p.m., February 05, 2007, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Carolyn, I hope you don't have too many more tears at bedtime. That must be so stressful but sounds like you were prepared for it.

    Let us know how she does at breakfast!! I bet she'll love it! Eggs, eggs, and more eggs!! You and Marvin will love all the choices - those buffets are the best!

    Have a good Tuesday! It's still Monday here, and it's freezing. We went sliding with our girls on Saturday and Sunday and I thought of you 'cause I know you dig the winter. xoxo Steph :o)

     

  • At 4:55 p.m., February 05, 2007, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Kennedy is such a beautiful little girl and will eating up a storm in no time. I recognize that puzzled look so many of the children have at first but she looks right at home in your arms. Congratulations. Susan, Emily and Julia

     

  • At 5:11 p.m., February 05, 2007, Blogger Natalie & Daniel Arsenault said…

    You've seen her smile already...those smiles will come again. bedtime was hard for Mei Lin as well. Don't forget the 3 day rule...it takes about that long until they start to come around. The breakfast buffets are great...try her with some congee...Mei Lin loved it!...although, I'm not sure if Kennedy is big enough...I know nothing about 10 month olds!! The trip is very exhausting...try to get some sleep when you can!! Thinking about you guys non stop, just like everyone else!
    Nat

     

  • At 5:12 p.m., February 05, 2007, Blogger Natalie & Daniel Arsenault said…

    oh and I forgot...cheerios, all the babies love them! Did you bring any? If not, see if you can get some, they are a godsend!
    Nat

     

  • At 6:11 p.m., February 05, 2007, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    hi guys, its Trudy just came down to Trevors work to see your baby girl. She is beautiful !!!! Angela called at lunch and let me listen to the videos over the phone i couldn't hold the tears back. I am just so thrilled for all three of you.Please tell Catherine and Kevin that I'm thinking of them as well. " blove and Bisses to baby Bennedy" :)

     

  • At 6:36 p.m., February 05, 2007, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    HI Guys, I have had chills all day thinking about how exciting this is for the two of you. The videos made my cry too:) I will be awaiting your arrival home....take care and enjoy your little girl....

    xoxo
    Andrea

     

  • At 6:36 p.m., February 05, 2007, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Completely addicted to this blog!! This is such an amazing adventure for you guys. What an emotional day at school (as you read in Crystal's posting!!)...
    We are in awe.
    Love & Kisses,
    Angie xo

     

  • At 7:30 p.m., February 05, 2007, Blogger Journey To Our Baby Sister.... said…

    I know that wide awake at 4:00 feeling and wondering...ummmm what shall we do!!!!! In a couple of days you will be sleeping until 7:00 or so....how exciting about the camera, that will be so awesome to see what pictures are on it. All our pictures were of Isabella's foster mom and sister, so great to have!!!! I am like everyone else so addicted to seeing your updates..can't wait to see your next one!!!!

    Cindy Leger
    Moncton, NB

     

  • At 7:39 p.m., February 05, 2007, Blogger RoLo said…

    aaaah Carolyn, Marvin I just got home and Rowan and I watched the videos together, what a beautiful moment when they let you take her into your arms. More tears of joy for you 2:) We have shared your moment with our family both here and in SA.

     

  • At 8:36 p.m., February 05, 2007, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    How truly wonderful it is to see the 3 of you together at last!!!! It brings back great (recent) memories for us and such happiness for you guys! You are a beautiful family! Enjoy your time in China and getting to know your little angel! We are thinking of you and so excited to see your blog each day!

     

  • At 8:42 p.m., February 05, 2007, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Dear Carolyn, Marvin& Kennedy, Gerard seriously thinks I should go for professional help for my addiction to your blog!! When we got home from school I showed the girls your pictures and videos and they said:"She's so cute, can we go see her after supper?" Had to explain the you were still in China.Your first evening with her brings back memories of our first night home from the hospital with Isabelle. She was awake ALL night and cried most of it. When I talked to Gail the next day she thought that was quite amusing!! As for Julie I can't remember at all. It was either not that bad or I was so out of it I can't remember.( I think it's the second one). Anyway hang in there. I'm sure Kennedy feels how much you love her and she will soon feel comfortable. We love you guys and can't wait to hear more from you. Love Monette

     

  • At 9:56 p.m., February 05, 2007, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    K I agree with Monette, I have an addiction to this blog and may need help. Both and Mya are sick tonight, but I made Maj make me up a nice bed on the couch and had him get the laptop and set it up next to me. I keep waiting.... waiting to hear how her first night was, waiting to see what she finally eats, etc. etc. All the memories of our first nights with Mya come rushing back.... the tears (I think me more than Mya, although I have to give you credit Carolyn, I don't think I ever realized what a strong indivdual you were, you are already an amazing mommy!) Everything is so new and exciting and just sureal. I cannot wait to see you all come off the plane with Kennedy in your arms. (Crystal, maybe social committee could stock us all up on the kleenex:) ) K you gys, enjoy and please keep us addicts updated with all the latest!!
    Love yas
    Holly:)

     

  • At 10:01 p.m., February 05, 2007, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Hi guys, I am sure you are all very overwhelmed. Kennedy's only way to express it is by crying. I'm sure she will soon realize how safe and loved she is. Take care, Rhonda

     

  • At 10:10 p.m., February 05, 2007, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Congratulations Marvin and Carolyn ~ what a beautiful family you are. Kennedy is gorgeous, of course, but so is everything about that moment that you first became parents. Thank you for sharing. It was an indoor recess today and so I showed my kids your video (I hope you don't mind). I put it on and watched it with them (they we crowded around my class computer), and then it was my turn to go to the staffroom. When I came back, they were still watching it (over and over). We all love you and are so glad that you let us in on your beautiful moment. All the best, always, Bryn.

     

  • At 10:12 p.m., February 05, 2007, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    She is so beautiful! It's so nice to finally see you all together. Velma had tears in her eyes this AM when I told her that you finally had Kennedy. We can't wait to meet her & to hear all of your experiences.

    Love
    Arlene, Donnie, Landon & Kiana

    PS. I agree with Natalie. Cheerios may be very helpful.

     

  • At 10:30 p.m., February 05, 2007, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Congratulations: Kennedy is an absolute darling and she looks like she has been in your arms for a million yrs. We can't wait to see her. Enjoy every minute and love from us out west .
    Wendy, Ellis ,Chelsea and Anthony

     

  • At 10:34 p.m., February 05, 2007, Blogger Deb said…

    Carolyn ad Marvin, Look at you old pro's. Kennedy is absolutly adorable. I only have the pictures on this PC but I have windows 2000 on my lap top so I'm gonna try to hook up the router to it so I can see.
    This is so exciting for us to see that dreams really do come true after the LOOOOOOOOOOOONG tedious wait.
    Happy to see you aren't having any technical problems.
    Hope everything runs smoothly for Kennedy over the next few days while she is getting to know you.

     

  • At 11:06 p.m., February 05, 2007, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    It is just sooo amazing. When I was watching the videos, and babies were crying all around, all I could think of was, "if that were my baby, all I'd want to do was to take her somewhere quiet where she could grieve in peace." I'm glad that Kennedy is grieving with you, in your hotel room, and is right where she should be. This is where all that wonderful parenting gets to come in. She gets to find out that parents are there for comfort. HOw sweet it is! I can't WAIT to see more. Keep it coming!

    Janet

    PS_ I hope she eats better tomorrow. My guess is- she will! :-) Get some sleep, woman! :-)

     

  • At 11:30 p.m., February 05, 2007, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Hi Guys, she's just absolutely adorable, I've watched the videos many times today and showed them to all my family. If Kennedy won't take the bottle, try feeding her a bit of formula by spoon and then when she starts sucking it a bit, shove the bottle in! Worked like a charm for Lana and we had to keep that up for a day or two before she caught on to the bottle. Lana also loved the steamed eggs and congee. Can't wait to see more! Happy to see Catherine and Kevin as well - tell them Congrats for us. Have a great day!
    Kathy, Ian, Jane, and Lana Gillis

     

  • At 12:00 a.m., February 06, 2007, Blogger Tao's Mommy said…

    Ahhh...I cant wait for the next post and pictures!! Hey, one word of advice that I have been give as a mommy-to-be is that you have to SLEEP when the BABY is SLEEPING!!
    And dont worry to much about Kennedy not wanting to eat yet...its normal!! Just think about how you feel when you are stressed and scared. As Kennedy warms up she will feel more like eating (may take upto 3 days). Good luck and keep on posting!!!
    ~~HUGS~~

     

  • At 8:05 a.m., February 06, 2007, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Hi Marvin, Carloyn and Kennedy ! We just watched your videos and our on our way to school wiping our eyes ! What a beautiful girl you have and she looks so happy ( as do her parents ) Thinking of you all and safe travels back to PEI ! We will continue to follow your blog! The Reeves Family

     

  • At 9:28 a.m., February 06, 2007, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Good Morning to the Clow Family
    She is absolutely beautiful....a perfect age and so enjoyable. (Makes me lonesome!). You are making our days so much warmer back here at Greenfield. I hope you feel the love poring your way. Keep those videos coming and we can't wait to see all of you in person again.Take care. Love, Helen

     

  • At 10:12 a.m., February 06, 2007, Blogger J Brant said…

    hey Carolyn...I am back for my 2 cents worth...I think i have left a comment on every post so far. I just want to say I love you all again and give Kennedy a kiss and hug from us. Everyone seems to have left lots of good advice...I am a novice again after 12 years so I am useless in the advice department but I know you have great instincts so go with that.
    Love ya,
    Jen

     

  • At 8:17 p.m., February 06, 2007, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Well hello family! It is so wonderful to see all the pictures. Jamie, Nancy, Liam and I can't get enough of Kennedy! Every now and again Liam keeps referring to Marvin as Dada! He fits the profile awesome! Anyway take care and we love you all...can't wait to meet the little love bug....Love Sherri and the rest of the Ramsays!!!

     

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